Hopeful

It is better to be alone than in a bad company. It is very true. I was always alone because of such bad people, jealous people, the people who don't understand me. I don't give a fuck about anybody. I won't compromise on my values and my system. If people are going to leave me, let them. I don't care. If they don't know my worth or respect me and my ideas, it is waste of time to entertain such people.

While going to my Nani's home, I realised that many things have changed here. Nothing is same as it was many years back. But, I think the modern solutions, modern things has no such matter which was in desi things and totke. I am glad that I have good memories of my Nani's home town which I would cherish throughout my life. One of my childhood's best days are at my Nani and Nana's place. There is love, respect and lots of fun there.

Long time ago, there was one moment which I want to share with you all. I joined Art of living under YES+ program guided and lead by Aditya ji I learnt many things from yes+. It made me better. Kriyas, aditya ji ke baathe, niharika dii ke yoga postures, many activities we all do together and learn something out of it is truly a blessing.  I became a better person mentally after joining yes+. One of the memories which I remember is this. It changed me. I loved that activity. Let me share this with you. This was an activity. It was like a social experiment about earning money. We were told to collect 400 out of 140 in our hands. We started with different ideas but as we approached people to ask for some work many of them did not respond well. But everytime we were being rejected somewhere we thought that something best is going to happen. I dont know how this idea came to Nikhil annaya's mind. We bought few chocolates and balloons😄😄....isn't it funny ?yes it was!! It was craz...

 You know why people go to grounds especially the old people just to laugh? It is because laughing is an exercise which makes our body and mind strong and energetic. You do not know your laugh would let others laugh. I have seen a video many days ago where a man in a train was laughing looking at his phone watching a comedy scene and the others who were seeing it were also laughing. Did he say all of them to laugh? He just did it right? It is said that we should not laugh loud. Especially when girls laugh immediately someone jumps in and says you are a girl don't laugh. I don't know where these alien people come from. Hahahah. But we should laugh. All our nervous system energizes when we laugh. Your laugh might also energize someone else too!! So why late...keep laughing as louder as you can. 

 Hello Happy people ❤️ Thank you all for living in Gratitude. I just wanna talk about a simple as well as a complex thing we Compare, we all compare. WE all compare ourself with others. We think that someone else is doing great in their lives and I am not doing that great. We all do this. Please text me, if you did not compare yourself with anyone through out your life and I will give an award 😂 Just joking...! We all do it. We all are human beings. We all should compare. I would say we all should compare ourself with others but not to make ourself down. It should make us strong. We should always compare ourself with others to learn from them, to work on ourself. If you look at other person so successful, you should either appreciate them or do something or just sit quite. Don't say to yourself that you are less than somebody else. Never ever compare yourself with others to put yourself down. If someone is good at smiling, learn to smile. Don't say I don't have a good smil...

 Never ever compare yourself with others. Never ever compare your life with someone else's life. Take something from them which inspires you. If you don't like something about someone either talk to them or just forgive the people for having little knowledge than yours. Don't be selfish. Don't think you are the greatest. Just be humble. Be like a kid. Explore everything you don't know. Help others. Be empathetic. Treat others as human beings and your people. When you feel this universe is yours, everything is yours, you will become more and more comfortable with yourself. Now please smile. It has been many days since I saw your smile 😁

 Be humble. No matter what! When you become humble, you become humble. When you become humble, you put your pride a side. When you become humble, you attract many great things into your life. When you become humble, you become nice. When you become humble, you become grateful. When you become humble, you see beauty all around. When you become humble, you smile, you shine, you grow :) When you become humble, you learn so muchhhhh!

Everything is simple.  If someone told something to you, don't react much. If others told something good appreciate them. If they hurt you, just forgive them. I have seen the power of forgiving others.  Don't put yourself as a very big personality. At the end of the day though you have so much money, status and position, you are a human being. So please forgive and take along everyone with you. Treat others not by the way they treat you, treat them the way you are! Life is very simple. Forgive people, you will lose your ego that's it nothing more or nothing less. Ego doesn't help you. Forgiveness does! So just be grateful and forgive. Just forgive others!

Life is easy very easy. We make it complicated. Yes, we do and I have told this many times.  We feel low sometimes. When do we feel low? When you compare yourself with others. What makes you dull? When you are seeing others light and not in you. You might compare yourself with others. You might think you are nothing. You might assume yourself as zero. When you think this way, I will tell you, you are zero. Only when you think you are zero, you become zero. Don't do that. Keep learning whatever comes on your way. Observe things around you. You need not do anything. When it's your time to express, don't step back. Keep doing your thing. That's it! This is life. Not many people smile in this world. So, just smile and Be happy. Don't go anywhere. Just do what makes your inner soul shine. Just smile like this! Everything will fall in place. Trust the timing.😁

 I sometimes think that I become more excited and over confident too. May be some of you might also feel the same. Over confidence is over the confidence. It doesn't even touch confidence. You should know yourself. You should be proud of yourself but never think of letting others down because you are superior. This is over confidence. Nakante thop evad ledikada....has two faces of it. It implies to over confident people and opposite of them. If you think I am the great no one else is...then it is over confidence. If you say, I am great and if others want to be, I will be there for them. This is confidence. This is Shining and letting others shine. So think..whether you are thinking the same or not. Now please give a broad smile and look at the mirror😁 Your smile is magical:)

 You might be surprised looking at the title. It is not that serious thing which I am going to express. Whenever you talk in the public or do something, you might feel as if everybody is looking at you, staring at you and are going to remember what you exactly did. Noo...it is never gonna happen my dear. We were taught this in Art of Living. The same I am putting into my thoughts. Do you know who was the first person who won the Nobel prize? May be few people know. If I ask, do you know who the person was who got 2nd Nobel prize in literature in the year 1988? Very few will remember. If I ask you what is the name of the person who sat beside you in one of the train journeys or in a function 5 years back. Do you remember it? No right!!! The same happens with people around you. You will never be remembered much all the time. It is only the closest people you move on with will remember you or think of you. Stop worrying of what people will think. Keep doing what you are doing. Now, pl...

 Listen to this song today... https://youtu.be/vWfjlIMiqBg This is one of my favourite songs. Hope you will like it. We just love ourself just the way we are that's it! That's it for today. Now, smile a little..little..very little...😁

You cannot do this Shivani! You don't know how to do Shivani! Rehne do...tumhri bas ki baat nahi! Tum kuch ni kar sakthi------ I listen to them many times. It is not just your relatives, it is anyone around us who can do this. They can break you, judge you, frighten you. You need to choose which is good for you. Are you even going to spend your valuable time thinking about this?  Is it even necessary? No right!!!! We give our time to negative thoughts that is the reason they occupy more than half percent in our brain. If you can be positive about anything which is happening in your life. That is enough. When you shift your thoughts towards positive then only you can reduce thinking negative. I don't think whether I am making sense or not and it's okay.  Let others be the way they are! You just be the way you are ! You are precious and no one is like you! Be proud of that! You can go and smile in the mirror...no one will see. Just smile and you end up laughing 😂😂😂😂 Now p...

You do not know, one act of kindness can make someone feel special and happy. You do not really know this. I just texted one of my friends one day. She said that I was the only one who keeps checking on her whether she is doing good or not. I don't know but I keep checking on her because she was there with me at some point of time and she made my time happy. She made me feel special. She was caring and loving that time. She was happy that I remember her. This is what happens in our lives too. We forget to talk to people. We forget to connect to them. Try doing it, you will feel good.  Now give a broad happy smile and check on your dear ones with whom you have not talked since many days:)

 Listening to what heart says... There are many instances in our life, where we feel stuck, confused and worried. This happens to everyone. So donot worry too much. This happens to Elon Musk, Ambani, Narayana Murthy, you, me and even my pet. (Hehehehhe) This happens to everyone. What makes them different from us is that we spend lot of time thinking why we are thinking this way where as they just don't give a damn thought about this. They just keep going and thinking of their goals.  We should choose, what is important for all of us. I can choose what I want. You can choose what you want. This will drive us. To choose and stick to it is another big thing which we consider as a challenge.  When you have two choices where you like the work and get less paid another where you donot like the work and get highly paid. Choose what your heart likes, it is when you give respect to your heart. It is when you become far better than others. If others are running, it is not at all a ...

 Smile more when you don't know something. Smile more when you have not presented your work perfectly. Smile more when others don't see what you are seeing! Smile more when challenges say I want you. Smile more when everything around you turns negative. Smile more when you fell down. Smile more when others judge you. Smile more when you are not treated well. Smile more when you are not respected for what you are! Smile more...smile more... When you smile, you make yourself positive. You make your inner self know that everything is going to be alright. No matter how the world around you is, when you know what you are! When you know what you can do. It is all you who can change anything. Whatever comes will come. Do not let the external factors decide your behavior. You are worthy! You do not know that. I cannot tell you. It is you who need to define who you are! Now..please smile more no matter what:)

 In search of inspiration, I have walked through the streets, Looking at all the flowers & trees around, But couldn't find anything inspiring. In search of inspiration, I read top 5 inspiring books, Also watched many inspiring movies. This didnot inspire me. In search of inspiration, I have talked to people around, Tried to draw inspiration, But couldn't withdraw anything!! In search of inspiration, I have tried everything around me, I went here and there, I haven't find it anywhere. But one day,  when I looked into the mirror, I smiled, Told to the person in the mirror, In search of inspiration, I forget to look into you.  I went here and there but couldn't see that you even exist!! When you can become your own inspiration, You actually inspire others!! We search here and there for inspiration but do not notice what actually is within us which can make us inspiring.

I am reading the book "Atomic habits" and it is a wonderful book written by James clear.  It says how to make every task or work into smaller fractions that is atomic habits.  If we keep doing things repeatedly slowly developing atomic habits, we would do things effectively. I will keep writing about this. Now please smile:)

 Today, I will be introducing you to one of my favourite poets Rumi. Rumi is a Sufi Poet. He wrote many poems in another language and it is been translated into English. "The Essential Rumi" is the book and I read it's translation. For today, I will be ending up with the poem. Hope you would like it.   Let go of your worries and be completely clear-hearted, like the face of a mirror that contains no images. If you want a clear mirror, behold yourself and see the shameless truth, which the mirror reflects. If metal can be polished to a mirror-like finish, what polishing might the mirror of the heart require? Between the mirror and the heart is this single difference: the heart conceals secrets, while the mirror does not. :)

 One day everything you are thinking of, everything you are dreaming for will come true. You will be surprised to understand the power of Universe. There is something in this universe which is mysterious. I always think how hours turn into day, day turns into nights, days and nights become months and years. Who might be working on this?. Is there any energy or a person or God who is guiding every planet to work this way. They rotate and revolve. These planets never stop. The air around us, the moons and the stars...oh my God everything feels like God has created all these things only for us. He would have just left everything simple. But he made it beautiful and pure.  We should be grateful for everything around us. Woww!! They just keep going:) Let us all dream big and do big. Our Solar system is nurturing us with everything it can do. What are we doing to it? You don't have to go to space and do something. Just be grateful now. You can step into space. Not a bad idea🤭 Now p...